Falling in and out of love
Falling in and out of love

Falling in and out of love

We’re all beautiful, in and out, body and soul

I have fallen in and out of love with myself often. Some days self love seemed so effortless, so kind, so gentle, so possible. Some days it was ugly, uncomfortable, and draining.

It’s always so easy to tell yourself or other people “Just love yourself” but the process is hardly spoken of. The self doubt that often creeps in, the lonely days and nights because you are realising that the people that you keep around are no good to you.

But self love also feels amazing, waking up in the mornings and reminding yourself that you’re beautiful, motivating yourself through the bad days and smiling all the way through aligning and brightening your own path.

We’ve all had a tricky and difficult year this year and we should be kinder and softer to ourselves than we have ever been before. Take your emotional, mental and physical health as a priority. Give yourself a break and take every opportunity to rest.

We may not be where we all want to be in life at the moment and this year made it all seem difficult but we will heal, we will succeed and we will love ourselves more than we ever did.

Take Care. 🌿


  1. We must be gentle with ourselves. Such a great reminder. It is so often for us to be hard on ourselves but sometimes, we have to learn to take it easy. Indeed, this year hasn’t been easy for any of us but through it all, we are here alive and standing by God’s grace. Healing is necessary. May we be willing to go through the process. Thank you for sharing 😊

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