Taking Care Through the Summer

By Lindiwe

Spring and Summer are undoubtably my best seasons in every way and I bet you know that by now, it is the season of wins, of reconciliations, of love and ultimate joy.

I feel as though I just look after myself way better in the summer, I go overboard with the online shopping looking for my favourite sun dresses, my skin just instantly pops, and my hair just wants to shine.


Usually, my experience with the sun is a personal one, the sun knows my joys, it knows my sadness, but it knows who I really am and that is why I like to turn my face my face towards the sun ever so often because often I am grateful to feel like I am blooming again, and I feel like me once again. It’s always such a blessing to feel brand new and to feel reborn, with an opportunity to try again.


Today I want us to touch on “taking care of yourself through the summer” and initially I just wanted to name steps on what you can do to take care of yourself, but I want touch on how to feel good through the summer.


In South Africa summer starts at the end of the year and usually people feel some sort of ‘year-end fatigue’ as we may always call it where we usually experience burn-out, extreme fatigue, unwillingness to try or feeling like you are on your last stretch and that is what I want to touch on this blog post, so here are a few tips to make you feel just a little better!


Give yourself a break every chance you can


I always preach this and that is because I am the biggest preacher of self-care and when you feel yourself burning out, give yourself time to take a breather, listen to your favourite music, schedule hours off your schedule and just give yourself time. Too often we do not give each other time to think, breathe and feel and I think it’s time you did that, its time to breathe.


Treat yourself to whatever makes you happy


Your happiness is what keeps you grounded so you should always look to make yourself happy, and content and my favourite way of making myself happy is going crazy with the online shopping and just wanting to feel good through clothes and you can do the same. You can write down what makes you happy, even the little things – those insignificant things that make you smile, do them and make yourself so happy


Taking a break from social media


Taking a few hours, days or a few weeks from social media can help you feel lighter and feel more and present in your daily life because you are no longer internalizing other people’s thoughts subconsciously and that can help you feel less pre-occupied and feel more rejuvenated.


Eat healthy and drink a lot of water


This one is quite self-explanatory because we have heard it all our lives, but I just want to remind you that eating healthy, taking your vitamins, being in the sun and drinking 8 glasses of water can make you feel better, take it from and me and I just know you know it to so – do it


Socialise whenever you get the chance to


Letting loose and talking to people who are willing to support you and listen to you is such a joy and a blessing and that is why I just say – speak, speaking to someone about anything makes you feel better, it is so amazing what a good laugh and a good conversation can do for you in the present moment.


Get enough sleep


My favourite one! Getting enough rest can help you achieve more during the day so that you are able to have more time doing what you want in your free time. Feeling refreshed and well-rested is the best way to start being motivated and achieve more and look forward to what is about to come in your life.


It is possible to end your year strong and enjoy the now and the present and want to try again in the next year, do what makes you comfortable this summer and what makes you feel alive. All the best wishes from me and let us have the best summer the best way we know how, enjoy the sun, appreciate the people around and always do the best you can.

Take Care!🧡🌅

What if it all works out just fine?

By Lindiwe

Photo: Pinterest

Hi guys, welcome to this week’s blog and today we’re exploring the option “what if it all works out just fine?”

This thought came to me today after going over the progress I’ve made with this blog, in my work career and my academic life and I realised that hey… things did just work out just fine.

And that makes you think of all of the times you doubted your journey because you felt as though you were not being guided enough or that you don’t feel like you’re enough for the journey that you are embarking on.

In our daily lives we feel a lot of emotions and sometimes we may project, doubt ourselves or feel like we are not worthy of the things that we achieve and chile, I need us to get out of that!

I need us to realise that we are deserving, we are so worthy, we are so worthy of the blessings that God provides us, we are worthy of all the good things that happen to us.

So, “what if it all works out just fine?” , what if we stop worrying about things out of our control? What if all our hearts desires are already taken of? And all we can do is focus on the now and work as smart and hard as we can?

I’ve said this before and I think I’ll say it again, it’s so easy to get distracted and consumed in self doubt and feeling inadequate and forgetting to be present in your journey and enjoy it, enjoying your progress will help keep you motivated and it helps you think clearly of how you’d like this journey to improve you in every aspect of your life.

To keep yourself present, grateful and secured you can journal your feelings and thoughts on your journey, you must journal all of your positive thoughts and negative feelings, keeping in mind that your negative feelings are not facts but still very much valid. Journaling can help track your progress, but very much remind you that you’re doing just fine.

Make short term goals within your journey, this will help you keep focused and within reach of what you are able to do and know what you can achieve. You are capable of doing anything you put your mind to, never underestimate yourself.

You can use affirmations to keep you present and grounded in the moment. You can write down all your hearts desires and affirm yourself that you can do it and it is possible for you to even do it exceptionally well.

And this leads me to the end of this blog and I just want to say that, it will be okay, you will succeed and you will fulfill your hearts desires. Don’t let self-doubt and imposter syndrome convince you otherwise – you are amazing.

This is all from me! Take care🌅🧡

New Season, new perspective

Hi guys, happy Spring, happy new season.

Spring is my favorite season, it’s a season of becoming, restoration, healing and living.

I’ve had a few bad months this year but they also came with blessings, with love and lessons for the future.

I hope in this season we live, love and be free. I hope we work harder towards our goals and we we receive our hearts desires.

I want to add a new segment to my blog this season, a haircare and fashion segment. I want to challenge myself and try something new and I hope you love it and walk with me through this new change.

I wish you a glorious spring and summer, it will be one to remember.

Take care🧡🌅